Continuously swimming in mindset pond scum, overtime, can lead to ubiquitous negativity, stress, depleted energy stores, and negative health implications. On the other hand, when we filter the scummy waste out of our minds, we can boost our immune system, increase the longevity of our lives, and feel delicious head-to-toe. One tool that I use to shift my mindset is making the good stuff stick.Read More
The space between endings and beginnings are where the juicy things are born. The unexpected, the miracles happen. This is the time when we figure out what we're made of, who truly stands next to us. This is when we learn surrender, and quit resisting. But it can be painful! It's scary, unpredictable, anxiety-provoking, self-worth crushing. We question everything. Why is this happening? Why ME?Read More
The definition of risk is a situation involving exposure to danger, harm, or loss. Now let’s pause…is playing a wrong note dangerous? Is hearing “no” to your great idea truly harmful? Is being not being a yoga guru during your first yoga class really a loss, dangerous, or harmful? Yes, we may feel uncomfortable or exposed. But, what are you missing out on if you don’t take a risk?Read More
We are here on this earth plane to find grace in the human experience. To feel the grit, the elation, the calm, the unsavory, the peace. We can talk to every moment and experience we have, asking it, "what are you teaching me?"Read More
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.”
Throughout my life, I lived with the belief that vulnerability, being sensitive, showing emotion, and tenderness were weaknesses. So, I tried to go through life with a “suck it up” attitude. I did my best to hide my sensitivity (not very well). This was especially evident when dating; rather, avoiding commitment, from the get go.
TO PREPARE THE SOUL FOR SELF ACCEPTANCE:
1. Turn the mind on to Contemplation for 365 days.
2. Soften the Adversity with 3 cups of Forgiveness. The nutrients in Forgiveness allow feelings from Adversity (shame, guilt, fear, and doubt) to dissolve into learning experiences of overcoming obstacles.
Love is the ability to keep your word to yourself.
Love is letting go of blame as your protector.
Love is dancing close to someone, feeling the electricity of their soul.
Love takes strength.
Love is to honor your personal code.
Check in. Have you said, “I’m: too busy to exercise, too busy to be social, too busy to spend time with people I love, too busy to be creative, too busy to meditate, too busy to go to the grocery, too busy to sleep, too busy to journal, too busy to date, too busy to go on vacation, too busy to cook, too busy to TAKE CARE OF MYSELF?”Read More
We create clamor by talking to fill the void, stuffing our feelings down with food, bitterness, or avoidance. We often forget that each in-breath is an opportunity to begin again, and each exhale allows us to let go of what is no longer serving us…envy, angst, resentment, victimization, judgment.
Looking at situations in which you say “yes,” to or “no” to can be a powerful unearthing of how you spend your time and energy, where you place your values, and where YOU are on your priority list. In my own personal development and work with clients, examining the ability to say “yes” or “no” uncovers imbalances in personal power, confidence, resilience, conviction and self-esteem.Read More
Eating breakfast is a non-negotiable part of my morning. To avoid cooking in the morning, or adding to my morning to-do list, I make muesli the night before to have a quick, delicious breakfast option that I can grab and go.Read More
I want to introduce you to a friend of mine, I believe you may know her, or her family. Her name is Veronica Lowlife. She is my Inner Critic, my Cynical Committee, my Hypercritical Dream Crusher. She tries to keep me small, cajoled into fear and self-doubt, and tries to deplete the belief in my ability.Read More
Motivation, I thought if I just had you, my life would be better. However, I jumped into our relationship too quickly. I wanted too much, too fast. I apologize for scaring you off. I’ve felt like a failure since you’ve left.
I decided to stop using the “I don’t have time,” phrase. The phrase disempowered me. I used it as a euphemism for what was truly going on in my life. Here are some scenarios when I’ve used the “I don’t have time” phrase.Read More
It’s the end of January, you’ve had a few snow days and your Super Bowl party is right around the corner. How is it going with your resolutions and goals? Have you lost 30 pounds, gone to the gym every day, paid off your credit cards, gotten organized, quit smoking, given up drinking, and gone to bed by 11 PM every night? Or, have your goals and resolutions taken a different turn?
The holidays can be a major trigger for feeling as if we’re not enough: not successful enough, not smart enough, not thin enough, not young enough, not old enough, not rich enough, et cetera. Also, it can bring on feelings of too much: too opinionated, too talkative, too introverted, too sensitive, and so on. It’s easy to fall into the trap of expectations of how we’re “supposed” to be, or seeing ourselves as flawed.Read More